Coaching Questions
Powerful Coaching Questions for Difficult Conversations
Great coaching starts with great questions. Here are powerful, open-ended questions you can use when coaching someone through difficult conversations. These questions are designed to help your client explore their situation, challenge assumptions, and discover their own path forward.
Opening Questions
- “What would you like to explore about difficult conversations today?”
- “What does an ideal outcome look like for you regarding difficult conversations?”
- “On a scale of 1-10, where are you right now with difficult conversations? What would one point higher look like?”
Deepening Questions
- “What's the real challenge here for you?”
- “What assumptions are you making about difficult conversations?”
- “What would you do if you weren't afraid?”
- “What's the story you're telling yourself about this?”
Action Questions
- “What's one small step you could take this week?”
- “What support do you need to move forward with difficult conversations?”
- “How will you hold yourself accountable?”
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